What puts you off when you're talking to someone? 🤭

What puts you off talking to someone? Like, can anything put you off a person? :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

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Intuition tht somethings “off” about them

Ignoring when i talk

1 word responses to what I say but words galore when they talk/text about something(meaning there not shy or akaward at talking)

Me intiating conversation all the time

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  • 1 word replies
  • Me starting a conversation
  • Instinct
  • Ignorance
  • Their body language
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Putting in the milk before the water when making tea/coffee.

That’s pretty much the only thing that can immediately turn me off a person

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  • Asking me about my relationship status
  • Marriage & kids
  • Stupid questions like “Are you disabled?”
  • Dismissive responses like “Oh that sucks”
  • When someone comments about my appearance/weight etc.
  • “OMG how can you not love…”
  • One sided conversations
  • f**kboy ask for nudes sends picture of an eyeshadow palette
  • People pushing me to get back on any social media platform that is toxic to me
  • Relatives (both close & distant) getting offended just because I hate weddings & parties organised by them
  • Ignorance on mental health, Asperger’s
  • How much money is in my bank account
  • Commenting on the food I’m eating
  • Taking pictures of me without my consent
  • When fools can’t take no for an answer
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That is an interesting turn off.

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Alot can put me off of person but I’ll just list the main ones.

  • Being treat like I’m dumb
  • Taking your anger out on me for no reason
  • One word answers
  • Being asked to repeat myself
  • Disrespecting my stuff or letting kids play with my stuff without permission (Especially since a two year old doesn’t need to play with something breakable)
  • Second guessing my descisions
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When someone is talking in long descriptive repeating sentences.
I have this problem with my boss. She likes to repeat every damn thing three times, going into excessive unnecessary details, so I drift into daydreaming on 2nd minute and don’t remember shit after xD

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It’s usually not something they do I just don’t like talking to people. Texting is easier. I’m also ,usually, afraid to talk to people. Or if they start asking about my family…

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  • eye rolling when I’m talking
  • showing no interest in anything I have to say after they ask me a question
  • laughing at something I said even if it wasn’t funny, just shows they’re not listening
  • when they say “before I say this don’t get mad” that makes me more mad then whatever it is they say
  • double standards, I’ll say something and get told it’s not funny or rude, somebody else will say it and it’s a barrel of laughs
  • when people assume they are gonna know how I feel from what they say
  • after I’ve said something they just stare at me with a blank expression

For the last one I know I talk fast but please don’t make fun of me for it…

I also know I can ramble and go off on a tangent and but please don’t interrupt

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When they keep looking at their phone while I’m talking to them after I asked them not to do so multiple times :expressionless:

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TBH I do things like this

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When I don’t know someone that well, I tend to use one word answers.

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When I am speaking and they won’t give their 100% attention, but when I am done and they start talking, suddenly they are very much interested all of a sudden.

That’s the only thing that can put me off.

Unless someone is speaking something wrong and they get offended when you try to correct them politely. That annoys me so much. Like, just accept the mistake and move on.

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Irritating fake voices, where someone is trying to be what they aren’t.
Over use of the word like, *It’s like, totally like annoying, when like someone like uses a word this like many times." Actually goes for almost every word someone overuses in this way. Makes me want to scream.
Someone who gossips, bitches about people behind their backs.
Two faced, where I saw you be nice to someone, then bitch behind their back.
Someone who belittles others.
Fakeness in general. Yes people can see through your fake smile to your cold personality!
Lack of effort, unable to contribute to or hold a conversation.

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Who does that??? :face_vomiting:

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When people expect me to act like how I acted years ago and still have the same opinions. Nope, I’ve changed and grown up.

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When someone brings up something that happened in the past. I would instantly stop talking to them for that! Especially when it’s something stupid that I have done or liked.

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is this like a shade? xD

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Shade? Nooooope… just shining a light in modern day idiocy

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