What’re the helpful things that you’ve learnt? Do you have anything you feel that has helped you for life?
Helpful things I’ve learnt:
No matter how complicated things are, I should always listen to the other and be patient.
Accept what I have and what I don’t have.
I don’t need a reason to love. Nor a reason to respect the other. You just do because you want to.
Never judge people by first impression. Always try to look at the good side in them.
If you look at things in a negative attitude, they will come true.
Never be with a head in the wall.
It’s never a shame to admit our mistakes; the real shame is not to admit them and learn from them.
Words can stroke you, but can also stab a knife in your heart; always be careful with your words, because believe it or not, they have such a massive power.
Maybe one punch can hurt you physically, but it’s nothing compared to words.
You should use your heart if we want to make a change in our world - not let the world change you.
Maybe many people who you don’t care about can hurt you, but there’s only one type of person that can really hurt you deeply - the person who you hold dear and love the most.
All the wars in our world happened mainly as a result of distrust.
We can never live without trust in someone.
Being worthy of someone else’s trust is a greater compliment than being loved.
What really makes love impossible is love without trust.
The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge (Jermiah 31:28). Meaning of the verse: That verse comes to say that if you have sinned, your children will pay for your sins.
So, be careful with your own actions.
There’s always a new chance and it’s called tomorrow
Better to forgive - to give up the pain that eats your heart.
Not everything is black or white, bad or good - the world is much more diversed.
As long as the candle is on - it is possible to fix.
No matter what you go through, the real win is being you along the way.
A person who doesn’t trust himself can’t trust others either.
The size of expectations is the size of disappointments.
Only in times of trouble you can tell who your real friends are.
Better to have 2 real friends in your life than have 1000 people who don’t care about you at all.
Crying doesn’t make the person weak. It only shows how strong the person has been.
There are way more things.
In addition, I think it’s always good to learn one thing or two that can definitely help you so much.
And whatever we’re going through is a kind of test. No matter how painful it is, how hard it is - we should accept it and lift ourselves up. We should decide how to respond to situations, even though it’s not easy sometimes.
Anything that happens has meaning and reason, even if it does not seem like that. So, whatever is our response or decision, they are affectice. No one can decide for you. Only you can take decisions for how to act. If I am not for me, who will be for me?
Which is why we should always think things through, not like predicting the future because that’s impossible but it’s always good to take factors into account like:
who else will this affect?
could this hurt a person or myself?
will this achieve anything?
will this affect me in the long term/short term?
And we all make mistakes but you need to reap what you sow sometimes.
Make the most of every second with someone you love. Don’t leave things unsaid, or dwell on arguments. You never know when they will be taken from you.
Some things don’t go the way you want it to but that’s okay because there may be better things comings.
Not everyone will be your friend. Some people will hate you, some just won’t like you but don’t forget that there’s a lot of people who do like you. It’s just that they might not express it enough.
Pushing away people doesn’t solve your problems. Neither does ignoring them. You might actually end up hurting someone who cares about you.
People aren’t mind-readers. Sometimes you need to open up or ask for space.
Sometimes you’re the toxic friend. Reflect on your behaviour often and check for red flags. It’s a tough pill to swallow but the sooner you realise, the better.
Some of your friends are toxic. Maybe they weren’t always but now they are. Once again, you’ve got to look out of the red flags.
It’s good to reflect on your mistakes but don’t overlook your achievements. My psych teacher told me I have a way of downplaying my achievements and that’s true. An evaluation focuses on what you did well and what you can improve on.
It’s okay to love yourself. Self-love is underrated. You’re amazing and allowed to tell yourself that. Be your biggest fangirl/boy/person.
Sometimes life sucks but sometimes life’s great. Sometimes we can only truly appreciate the good moments if we know what the bad moments are like.
do it