I agree. Plus not everyone uses the ranting thread.
Exactly. I use the lounge ranting thread for more personal, family-related rants, and the regular ranting thread for stuff thatās not that private.
Which is smart. I mean, sometimes I may get likes on ranting about a certain topic. Sometimes itās more of a surprise than something Iām expecting to happen⦠it honestly shouldnāt matter
I make no sense Lol
Aww
Iām pretty sure youāre talking about me. Yeah, no Iāll go boy-crazy all I want I like good looks.
I just donāt do politics
Iām centrist but I usually identify with right-wing because I have more right ideology than left.
Random fact: Did you realize that this thread now has Tea, Coffee AND Cookies ? Snack party time !
I mean, I donāt crush often over people, but if I find someone cute, theyāre cute. Iāll tell them that too
Oh, yes! Youāre right!
I agree with @fcukforcookies on this one. It really is hard for others to help people they are not close too when it comes to mental support. Iām sorry if anyone ignored your problems or other peopleās problems on the ranting thread. There are many here dealing with mental turmoil of their own which makes it hard to talk to someone with the same problems since it could hurt their own mental state more. Iām not saying to put your problems on there but donāt take it personally when no makes a comment. They did see but they probably just wasnāt sure of what to say.
Umā¦this has already been addressed before but the mods are allowed to choose who they give a like or not to since itās there account even as mods. Just because they arenāt liking your post doesnāt mean they do not like you. Maybe start conversations with them more so that you get to know them and they get to know you but itās bit rude to expect them to immediately start liking your post if you have never truly interacted with them more than a few times. This is just my thoughts on this post. The mods value all users on here and it can be hurtful to them when they see comments like this because they do not use favoritism.
Yeah⦠itās hard for some people to support others without feeling really drained (cough, me) some people are naturally good at it, but it just tires me out man. Sometimes I reply with an āOh noā to show that I saw them but like⦠I care but Iām not a therapist.
Just donāt dump your issues on other people. Donāt expect people to console you, if you need to vent, vent, just donāt expect people to come with support, hugs, and cookies lol.
Exactly, I get really annoyed when I see comments like this because they arenāt looking at it from other peoples perspective. It takes me a good bit to truly warm up to someone and start talking over some issues like this.
Iāve been guilty of this before when Iāve vented to someone and kinda expected support, however, itās another thing to point it out and expect it constantly lol. Just⦠donāt expect support.
Thatās so true. Like I try my best, but I will get⦠upset at some point.
plus Iām pretty blunt so I scare people away lol
Sometimes Iāve just liked someone reply when I knew that I couldnāt really say anything⦠like what is, āIm so sorry to hear that?ā gonna do?
I get that too, I had moments like that sometimes too but I never said anything either. Itās pointing it out that makes it look bad.
I just use hearts . Just try to offer⦠support I guess??