Anonymous Confessions 🤐

I agree. Plus not everyone uses the ranting thread.

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Exactly. I use the lounge ranting thread for more personal, family-related rants, and the regular ranting thread for stuff that’s not that private. :sunflower:

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Which is smart. I mean, sometimes I may get likes on ranting about a certain topic. Sometimes it’s more of a surprise than something I’m expecting to happen… it honestly shouldn’t matter

I make no sense :woman_facepalming:t3: Lol

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Aww :pleading_face::green_heart::eyes::sparkles:

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I’m pretty sure you’re talking about me. Yeah, no I’ll go boy-crazy all I want :joy: I like good looks.

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:eyes:

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I just don’t do politics

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I’m centrist but I usually identify with right-wing because I have more right ideology than left.

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Random fact: Did you realize that this thread now has Tea, Coffee AND Cookies ? Snack party time ! :tea: :coffee: :cookie: :yum:

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I mean, I don’t crush often over people, but if I find someone cute, they’re cute. I’ll tell them that too :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Oh, yes! You’re right!

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I agree with @fcukforcookies on this one. It really is hard for others to help people they are not close too when it comes to mental support. I’m sorry if anyone ignored your problems or other people’s problems on the ranting thread. There are many here dealing with mental turmoil of their own which makes it hard to talk to someone with the same problems since it could hurt their own mental state more. I’m not saying to put your problems on there but don’t take it personally when no makes a comment. They did see but they probably just wasn’t sure of what to say.

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Um…this has already been addressed before but the mods are allowed to choose who they give a like or not to since it’s there account even as mods. Just because they aren’t liking your post doesn’t mean they do not like you. Maybe start conversations with them more so that you get to know them and they get to know you but it’s bit rude to expect them to immediately start liking your post if you have never truly interacted with them more than a few times. This is just my thoughts on this post. The mods value all users on here and it can be hurtful to them when they see comments like this because they do not use favoritism.

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Yeah… it’s hard for some people to support others without feeling really drained (cough, me) some people are naturally good at it, but it just tires me out man. Sometimes I reply with an ā€œOh noā€ to show that I saw them but like… I care but I’m not a therapist.

Just don’t dump your issues on other people. Don’t expect people to console you, if you need to vent, vent, just don’t expect people to come with support, hugs, and cookies lol.

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Exactly, I get really annoyed when I see comments like this because they aren’t looking at it from other peoples perspective. It takes me a good bit to truly warm up to someone and start talking over some issues like this.

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I’ve been guilty of this before when I’ve vented to someone and kinda expected support, however, it’s another thing to point it out and expect it constantly lol. Just… don’t expect support.

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That’s so true. Like I try my best, but I will get… upset at some point.

plus I’m pretty blunt so I scare people away lol

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Sometimes I’ve just liked someone reply when I knew that I couldn’t really say anything… like what is, ā€œIm so sorry to hear that?ā€ gonna do?

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I get that too, I had moments like that sometimes too but I never said anything either. It’s pointing it out that makes it look bad.

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I just use hearts :yellow_heart::yellow_heart::yellow_heart::yellow_heart::yellow_heart:. Just try to offer… support I guess??

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