Got this idea by @/BlackBlood ‘s question on the question thread. Thanks
If you’re dependent, on who? Why?
If you’re independent, since when? How?
how does it show?
Would you like to be the other way around?
Personality I’m quite independent, and I’ve been that way since a very young age.
there are still some specifics in which I’m still dependent but overall I’m a pretty independent person and I wouldn’t want it the other way around
I think I’ve kind of always been independent since I’m just not a very feel-y and sappy emotional person, but I guess I wish that I was a little more balanced since I can come off as antisocial haha
I’m independent I used to be dependent on my friends but when I changed school I didn’t have a close group of friends like I used to so I learned how to be okay to do things by myself and try new things without bringing someone on the way (although that’s very enjoyable lol)
Since last year after I got out of an extremely toxic relationship. Since then I’ve matured a lot and realized my worth. I’ve come to the realization that I can’t find love in someone else if I can’t find it in myself. I also realized that after losing a few friendships, the only way to find true happiness is with myself. I can’t depend on others for happiness cuz I will end up hurting myself more than I might know. After the super toxic relationship, I learned a lot about what I need to do with myself, and so I grew out of being so codependent on others.
I stopped heavily relying on others. I also stopped setting such high demands and expectations on others because I realized it’s unhealthy for them and myself. I stopped heavily depending on others for self-reassurance, too.
Absolutely not. I am glad I’ve grown to be the person I am today— and I hope to continue growing