Sounds good!
this is a good question bc I think that would make it interesting
He’s in the fcs now so you can see him
Yes pm me
you guys need a red flags lesson those are not red flags. those are just personality traits some people don’t like
Nikhil, Azucena, and Bainbridge are the only ones with genuine red flags
go watch some red, beige, green flag tiktoks
Trust me, for Baylor what I wrote down it is a red flag, but I don’t want too spoil any secrets
My favorite character was the one I made for this RP and I tried rewiving him countless times but it wasn’t the same withouth the person I planned him with because a lot of who he is is based on the sister and brother who Laronie made
And ngl, I don’t think there is a certain list of things that are or are not red flags. Depends on context and extent, anything can be a red flag Plus, what I consider to be a red flag might not be a red flag to someone else, it’s a personal thing…
we should start over the assumption slides and make it more appropriate
Agreed for sure!
yeah but a red flag is like something that gives off “wtf that’s so gross why am I talking to you”
not just questionable personality traits. they’re like actions or things that someone does. like hard icks
beige is more weird personality traits
Beige?
yeah so
red is like “hard pass. that’s unacceptable”
beige is “that’s weird/not my thing but okay”
green is “oh yeah I love you for that”
and I mean maybe it’s just my opinion lol but someone’s personality isn’t really an “ew no hard pass” unless it’s anger or violence
but just being ambitious or intelligent or independent aren’t red flags
they’re more beige…depending on context
so
“Corin is so ambitious he would topple your family if it put him on top” is red I would say
but
“Corin is an ambitious person” is not red but more beige if anything
also I’m not judging your red flags just pointing it out in case people don’t understand the meaning
Yeah the way Harrison took Abigail being introverted as a red flag whereas Belle would think it’s more of a green flag … That’s why it was hard to find something that’s a green or red flag for both my characters
Being ambitious can even be seen as a green flag for some people honestly
My definition of a red flag is much wider than that honestly, I have things that might be a hard pass for me that might not be a problem for others, that’s what I was trying to say
harrison does not think its a red flag he just thinks shes quite boring, he does not mind people being introverted lol, he has some introverted friends but he thinks there is a difference between a fun introvert and a plain introvert