Have you ever had a group of friends that make you feel left out when they do things without you? How does it make you feel? Share your experiences!
Thatâs how I grew up, haha. Itâs not something I like to talk about but I know the feeling a little too well, it really sucks.
I get it! On my 12th birthday, a group of my friends were supposed to go to Nandoâs with me and they all decided to go out together instead so only my best friend showed up. Iâve been kinda paranoid that my friends are gonna leave me since then and it sucks
They all had these lame excuses and I was just like HAHAHA ITS FINE
Yeah, every time I try to help with something and want help. But 'cause I live on the opposite side of the world, whenever I mention it itâs at the wrong time. So I never get help or get a say in the events unless I stay up late. Unless I to sleep when the sun rises. And still, I donât get to have a conversation about what is important, to help that person who doesnât want to discuss it with me.
Um story of my life I guess, no real friends in high school and nobody in my real life except family to even wish me a happy birthday on my 17th. Never being included in photoâs, plans, memories. Always being left out of conversations, told to âlook after the bagsâ while everybody went off and did something else.
But I have some rad friends now.
Yes! In middle school I had friends who would hang out on the weekends without me, and not tell me. I even suggested to them that we should hang out sometimes over the weekend, but they still didnât invite me to any of their hang outs. It kinda hurt when I found out, but oh well
Not on here but my âfriendsâ exclude me from a lot of things ----- I wasnât joking when I said Iâve never contacted anyone from my school other teachers ever since this quarantine thing started happening. And from what I assume, theyâre all talking on discord and shiz without me. Literally the day after a two-week break my best friend said that she forgot I existed but didnât say that to anyone else. We also didnât talk or do anything together over that break.
I feel left out 99.9 percent of the time. At school, at home, on social media, everywhere. Mostly because I am afraid they will leave me, so I distance myself, but partly because they just donât have much interest in me.
Did anyone feel worse when youâd see the pictures of you âfriendsâ online and not one of them had you in it?
Happens every Friday
thatâs how i grew up. i usually had at least two âbest friendsâ. eventually they would start hanging out without me. when that happened to me for the first time it sucked, but as the years passed by i got used to it and learned how to not let it touch me. i do enjoy my loneliness sometimes.
this nights the perfect shade of, dark blue dark blue, have you ever been alone in a crowded room?
Yes. You get used to it after a while.
i always slither into everybodyâs business *pretentious pose *
ahahahaha last summer all my friends did was go out with each other and then post pictures about it and most of the time I was just passive-aggressive about it because eh Iâm so non-confrontational itâs funny, but then when some of my other friends who were also being left out would say anything, they would get all pissed and be like weLL whY diDnâT yOu iNviTe Us. Like shiitake mushrooms, is it so bad to want to be wanted?
i use to be part of this friend group and id feel left out because they would hang out with more popular kids? sooo thank god i left them.
AGH, Iâm always saying stuff like âNo donât worry!â âItâs totally fine (:â to people who do that too. But in my head itâs a whole other universe lmao.
In my head Iâm screaming inside with rage and anxiety.
YES. One minute Iâll be like âItâs fineee, I donât care. Psh.â And the next minute, youâll catch me screaming into my pillow, crying.