Not sure if you have heard of this story but oh man this is absolutely sad!! Some men really can’t take rejection!!
If you’re not sure what an incel is, it stands for involuntary celibate. Basically, they’re insane as hell just because they get rejected by women they find attractive. They’re sexually frustrated but with aggression! Basically, they think that all women are sluts and they should all die and other horrible things. Like if they found out that a woman is already taken, they instantly call her a slut.
Such a shame, these kind of people exist on the internet. Yet people tell us to “ignore them” when this is absolutely serious.
Have you ever been in a situation like this and when you vent to some people you thought you could trust but they tell you to ‘just ignore them’ ? I have been in that situation too. And they blame you for it and give you stupid responses like:
I just saw this today and I can’t understand how people can justify murder… Everyone is saying “she cheated, she got what she deserved” when they weren’t dating, and who even deserves to get murdered for cheating if it were to happen?
This is so messed up. Rest in Peace, Bianca. I hope justice will be served
I really can’t understand those people at all.
Like a men can reject a woman, a woman can reject a man. Why should it be different? It doesn’t make sense.
We shouldn’t ignore these people. They should be reported to authorities.
I agree. She didn’t deserve this at all! It’s even very disturbing that the guy who killed her took pics of her dead body and bragged about it on his IG. What a sick bastard!!
Their ideology goes too deep at this point. They think that they were born predestined to never find love or women, and that they should just ldar (Lay down and rot). Because of this mindset that springs up when they ‘take the black pill’, they start to treat women like objects. Their writhing jealousy for the ‘Chads’ who are predetermined at birth as the ones who will win women over from a strictly biological sense. The difference between incels and chads is all rooted into things that they simply cannot change. Height, muscle mass, hygiene, acne and of course: skull shape. They’re forums are filled with promises and pleads of ‘vengeance’ on the women of the world, as well as fawning, fake praise and love for the Chads of the world.
This is all nonsense. Nothing is predetermined at birth in this way. Dumbing these kinds of issues down like this will do nothing but lead to violenece, self-hatred and other nasty crap. Incels like to take the easy way out in life at every turn. Can’t find a date? Well, you were never going to anyway because of the shape of your skull. Does feminism confuse you? Well don’t worry! It’s just a sham to trick the people of the world into thinking women are worth more than being an object for your satisfaction! Race politics are complex and weird and you live in the US, where they’re at their worst? You have me there, I have no idea why a lot of these guys are racist as well, it’s weird. It’s not like being unable to get a girlfriend is a race thing. I just. Ugh
Also yeah, those things that they ‘can’t change’ are ridiculous fallacies that they need to get over before any real change can happen. They make jokes about it but citing ‘bad hygiene’ as some irreparable source of contempt in your life just doesn’t fly. Have a shower. Muscle mass? If it upsets you that much, go to the gym. They have enough money to get all the anime merchandise they want. They could eat healthy and go to the gym if they wanted to.
I have a lot more to say about incel culture. It’s one of the most disgusting, horrible ideologies on the face of the internet but I’ll leave it here for now
What’s even worse is that the guys I used to be friends with defend them saying that I should be “flattered” that they’re into me. Nothing flattering about creeps that get extremely butthurt when you reject them. Bunch of p*ssy beggars!!
You should be flattered by things you find flattering. You should like people you actually like.
You should never feel pressured to like someone or even be nice to them out of obligation. I wouldn’t want someone being nice to me out of some kind of misplaced pity
I mean that they tell me that I should find it flattering from someone that I don’t like.
Exactly! Like I remember one of my ex-friends (who is a dude) broke up with his girlfriend (he found out that she cheated on him) tried to use me as a rebound. I don’t even know why I was nice to him tbh, he got extremely mad when I rejected him straight away, telling him that it’s wrong of him to look for a rebound and I wasn’t really interested in him. I reasonably rejected him and he got mad at me, making very passive aggressive FB statuses.
That’s what I mean. You shouldn’t be pressured into being flattered of all things.
Being a rebound isn’t fair. But more importantly, you aren’t some consolation prize. He’s also not entitled to your affection, or even your kindness. No-one is.
This is why I call myself a straight ace (idk if that is an oxymoron lol) but you can understand why. Especially when there are people out there that don’t seem to understand that I’m not interested.
Not an oxymoron, from what I understand! You can have attraction but not act on it, from what I know. Those people are around too much. I’m not a particular fan
Yeah, it’s just recently that I have discovered that since I seem to get very weird over the topic, sex. I have mentioned that I always have to skip scenes or mute the TV so I don’t hear anything sexual.
i agree, it shouldn’t be ignored and people should take stuff like this more seriously
I hope justice will be served