For instance, I hate when people say “have a good meal” while I’m eating. I find it very pointless, unnecessary and also lame, especially when I have a food in my mouth but have to respond “thank you”.
Do you have anything you hate/dislike?
For instance, I hate when people say “have a good meal” while I’m eating. I find it very pointless, unnecessary and also lame, especially when I have a food in my mouth but have to respond “thank you”.
Do you have anything you hate/dislike?
I hate when customers, coworkers or just any stranger ask me Hi, how are you? I don’t want to answer and I’m definitely not going to ask how you are in return. I always just quickly say I’m fine then keep it moving. It seems a little rude but I really don’t like speaking to people and I’m not trying to start an unnecessary conversation and it always leads to one.
I hate that too! Mainly because I’m guilty of saying “you too” to the waiter and then wanting to die inside I know @ChaoticDeluge feels the same way!
Whenever people continuously say “good morning”. Constantly.
Having to lie to people just because it wouldn’t be polite to tell them what you really think
Amen
Asking “Are you OK?” when they don’t actually care about your wellbeing.
I hate when people say I have to say you’re welcome after they say thank you…
I dont need a thank you, so I dont say you’re welcome. Sometimes I say no problem, or uh huh…
And how can someone be mad after I just did something from them just cuz I didn’t say you’re welcome!!
I’m the same. Just say hi. Dont have to say how r u? It’s not like they really care unless ur in an actual conversation.
When you arrive at a place, and you have to greet everyone with a kiss on the cheek, whether you know them or not… same when you leave a place.
I’m pretty much an ambivert, and this is something that gives me social anxiety. I don’t mind greeting people that I feel comfortable with by giving them a hug or a kiss on the cheek, but not people I barely know or don’t interact with much. If there are people in a room that I’m not that close with, I prefer to just wave and say ‘hi’ in general.
And I don’t hate it, but I’ve never been able to tell someone ‘Bless you’ (or Salud) when they sneeze. I don’t know why?! Maybe because my parents didn’t say it much (my mom sometimes says it to people but my dad didn’t)… but I just can’t bring myself to say it to anyone, unless someone else says it first. I know, awkward!
I fell ya about the sneeze part xD I stopped saying it, and taught everyone at my work to stop saying it to me. Especially since I have a seasonal allergy, and I sneeze a LOT in the summer.
I actually had a customer write a letter about me not saying your welcome to her a couple of times at work. She gave it to my boss. The crazy part is that she had my full name on the letter. Most times I say your welcome after I’m finished with a customer but they just don’t hear me say it because I’m a quiet talker.
When they ask how you are- it’s always going to be the same reply. I’m always going to reply the same thing even if I’m having a bad day, “Good”. Idk why it’s a thing. I mean, it’s okay if your friends ask you that and you can really vent, but you can’t do that with a stranger and you’re stuck in the stance of saying, “Good.” I personally don’t ask people how they are if I don’t plan to get a genuine response.
stupid!
I know right! I was so mad when that happened. I had no idea who she was. Sometimes I do forget to say Your welcome. I now always say no problem.
I just hate when people talk to me tbh
In all seriousness I hate fake niceness, I have no time for it. When I walk into a shop I don’t want people coming up to me like “good morning!” It doesn’t make me feel good.
At the same time I don’t want to be treated badly though but niether does anyone?
Just be regular with me I cba with pleasantries.
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I can pull out my own chair thank you very much. I’m no 2
•Having to stand up when you greet your teacher to “show respect”
•sitting on chairs in a certain way, I usually sit in a weird way and some people think that it’s rude, although the only reason why I am sitting that way is because the chair isn’t comfortable…
Omg yes