Heyy there.
Okay, i have been keeping this for too long and i just wanted to talk about the first date impressions. (Note: this discussion isn’t about episode, this is just an example)
First of all, I see many stories where the MC dresses up for the first date to "wow’ the LI and sometimes you get the choice to choose the outfit for your MC and guess what? I only see 3 options which only have either a dress or skirt which led me to this:
GIRLS
Why is it so important to be overdressed for the first date? I get it first impressions are everything but spare me with dis shit You don’t have to always put 15243.0384.000 pounds of makeup and a perfect dress which you bought last week with yo bestfriend!! If girly girl IS your personal style and you like dresses and skirts then go for it, but if you don’t like them but you gotta wear them tO iMpReSs yOuR dAtE while it doesn’t feel like yourself, then wear your usual jeans with a nice top, you are going on a date, not on the red carpet (even if that was the case i would still go with my jeans) This is seriously getting frustrated, wait for yo wedding to get this formal.
BOYS
And you, boys? Don’t always put this expensive tux, just put a nice shirt and a pair of jeans as well, ayee u can even match!! It ain’t yo wedding either, it’s that damn date you have with a girl you met on a dating app.
On the first date, you can be a little formal but on the second, third, fourth, 200th… just go with yo pijamas already!
What’s your opinion on this?
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Irl I am always overdress. but first The guys had already known me in sometime so they knew how I look evryday. and second I got 3 fashion styles. not tryining. looking like I am doining a photo shot or cosplayining .
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Yeah, some overdress because it’s their style, i never disagreed on this, you do you 
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I mean I don’t own an expensive tux. On a first date though? I generally don’t even go with the shirt. Like, first dates often aren’t ‘formal’ in the traditional sense. I’ve been to a formal dinner, I’ve been to a couple, and dates have a very different atmosphere. I wouldn’t want it to have the same atmosphere, because formal dinners are stressful.
Honestly, I dressed up more for a much later date @ShanniiWrites and I had, and that was just dress shirt and trousers. Like, I have suits and stuff for work interviews and I used to wear one to work, but dating isn’t a formal affair. It’s your personal life, and it should be treated as an important part of your personal life. Let your style shine through, don’t be bogged down with formal dress.
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To be honest, I’d personally hate a formal first date. How are you supposed to get to know the person in a more comfortable setting?! You’re both so uptight because you’re on your first date and it’s formal.
I very much enjoyed sitting in a sushi booth and watching you fail to use chopsticks. It endeared me to you
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I’m probably not the best person to ask about this…never been on a date before 
I personally think first dates should be a little more casual, since you’re still getting to know each other, and I imagine first dates are kinda awkward at the start? 
If not, I’m just an idiot, but anyways… Save the formal dates until later. 
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Idek I never really thought about overdressing because I always overdress when I leave my house 
or just wear one of my flower dresses. And the second date idek just depends on where we even go
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Hmmm, I’ve met like 10 guys online 
and I dont think I overdressed for any. I think it’s important for them to get to know YOU!
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Overdressing isn’t a word in my vocabulary some days lol. I think it really depends on the type of person.
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The first date I ever had ever was in a park, no suits or dresses involved being yourself is more important then anything
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