All lesbians are welcome! Non-binary, he/him, he/they, neo pronoun, etc. lesbians are all welcome you are so valid! (pronouns ≠ gender)
This is a safe space for [mainly lesbians] to talk about their experience as being a lesbian.
Definition: Non-man attracted to other Non-men. (The definition changed because it’s easier to explain this to others that we accept non-binary lesbians, etc. Just anyone who ISNT a man.)
Also please keep in mind that wlw(bi/pan) and lesbian experiences are completely different !
And if you’re a non lesbian feel free to ask questions! I’ll try my best to answer :))
Oh and before anyone ask from what I know He/ him lesbians are women/lesbians who use He/Him you know how some gay men call themselves queen and use girl? It’s the same for he/him lesbians.
And Non binary lesbians are non binary peeps who identity as being lesbian and the rest you can surely figure out.
(I think) he/him lesbians also refer to a time that lesbians had to pretend to be men to be recognised by the church, and to be safe in their love in general society :]
i use she/her or he/him pronouns because thats whats comfortable for me but some lesbians can use he/him he/they or neopronouns. gender ≠ pronouns so i still identify as a women (gender wise) but use she/him pronouns
