How do you choose your friends?

I mean, irl friends.

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Oh :eyes::eyes:
I should move somewhere close to your house, so we can be friends irl too :smiley_cat::green_heart::eyes::sparkles:

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Move into his house

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I don’t choose friends tbh. They kinda choose me, cuz I’m too shy to get to know them more after one conversation.

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They have to be crazy/weird like me and they also have to be funny. IF THEY’RE NOT ANY OF THOSE I WILL WALK AWAY IMMEDIATELY jhwdnkfnk. :slightly_smiling_face:

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What do you mean?

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Turning things into a competition

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Same lol

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I don’t really make friends that easily and if I do I just don’t speak to them unless they reach out first because I’m shy and can’t keep a conversation going for dear life… So, yeah, I don’t really have friends lol
For some reason, there are people that like me at first and actually try to be my friend so I kinda stick with them. But the thing is, I really do like everyone and I don’t have any standards, as long as they aren’t mean and actually show some interest

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Lately I’ve been picking friends judging by what they reply to ā€œdo you like ducks?ā€ :eyes::sparkles:

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okay, okay, to be honest, i just approach people who catch my attention and then they usually end up traumatizing me slowly

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I guess one of the most important things in choosing a friend is how they respond to me.
Do I feel comfortable being myself around that person? Do they listen when I share, and do they trust me enough to open up to me?
When we’re in a group, do they include me in their conversations?
But perhaps the biggest test of friendship is the way people act when you are going through hard times. If I’m telling someone that I’m upset, down, depressed, and hurt because of a certain situation, and their response is ā€œget over itā€, or even worse, rubbing in my face that THEY don’t have that problem…

…Then forget you. I don’t need that type of negativity in my life.

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looks around for people in band merch

spots someone

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