I actually feel like I can explain this better with an actual example (I’m keeping it simple):
In a debate about trans people, a trans person misgenders another trans person they’re debating with because they disagree with them, they tell you they can do this because they are trans.
Misgendering people isn’t okay no matter who you are and the vast majority of people would agree with this.
Next example:
In a debate with a cis person (pretend you’re also cis in this situation) they’re losing the debate, so they resort to saying “well trans people don’t need you to speak for them”
You can see how both examples are extremely counter productive and not based on any real logic. They’re both used in a situation where the person resorting to calling out the identity of their opponent is losing.
It’s interesting how that kind of thing can be flipped around.
In the first situation, I’ve already said that being trans doesn’t give you the right to misgender anyone. But I’m going to be specific and say Blaire White is a bad example of identity politics but a great example of identity politics gone wrong. She’s been brought into discussions before about how she throws other trans people under the bus to make her look like “one of the good ones” in they eyes of people who think she shouldn’t exist. She’s an example of, despite being trans, also being transphobic.
This does not mean that all trans people cannot speak up on trans related things, contrapoints does a great job of that as one example. No, this isn’t me saying “right wing trans people aren’t valid” they just make no logical sense. When you actually watch a right wing person in a debate, most of their views/arguments fall apart on themselves it doesn’t matter what their identity is. But throw being trans and right wing into the mix, I can’t virtually comprehend how self destructive that is. I probably never will, I don’t have to. I can just debate with logic.
In the second example, this is one I often come across with my family. Now, if someone were to message me with racism or homophobia etc, I’d probably just block them. But with my family, I live with them, while not everything they say refers to an aspect of my identity, it still makes me super uncomfortable because I’ve seen how their worlds and beliefs affect people in real life. The lack of empathy disturbs me, so I call it out. Which is when I’m told not to speak for them.
Even though I’m usually only saying educational things that helped me understand issues in the hope I can help them understand. They obviously see this as patronising. So I can’t win, it’s either be nice and accused of patronising them or be rude and called aggressive. Another thing I hate is civility politics
. Because none of that is relavent to the actual points I’m making and is just a way to shut me up.
So to conclude, when identity politics is used because someone is losing an argument and wants to shut up their opponent, this is when I take issue with it. Most people will actually agree that it’s dumb and arguments should be argued based on the argument not on the person you’re arguing with.