RP Anonymous Confessions, Questions and Feedback

mood.
but me.

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Me too.

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What should I do when a well known role player starts making me feel uncomfortable? I’m too scared of backlash from them and their friends if I say anything

Okay, firstly, I’m sorry about that <3 you shouldn’t have to feel that way

But you should pm @CrazyCaliope as she’s the head of the RP/SG section and so is responsible for dealing with that sort of stuff. She’ll keep you anonymous so you won’t have to worry about backlash or anything. But if you don’t pm her about it, then we can’t do anything to help you feel less uncomfortable as we don’t know the situation and you’re anonymous ://

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I don’t know the circumstance so I agree with Chid - PM an RP mentor or head (Cali). But if it’s possible (I know sometimes this is uncomfortable but), I’d recommend talking to the person privately before that. Especially if you feel that they’re not intentionally doing this because though I haven’t been here for long, I think people here are pretty understanding, (more so than in some communities I’ve been in). So maybe it could be cleared up quickly.

Some things are better off being handled in private but if you’re too nervous or unsure, then that’s okay too. Like Chid said, turning to Cali is a good idea so you won’t feel ganged up on? But know that it’s okay to let people know what makes you feel uncomfortable, your boundaries are valid and deserve to be respected. That goes for other people’s too ^^

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Yes, yes, Chid and fang are right. (wink) Thank you.

If an RPer is ever in doubt about anything in our community then they’re free to PM and seek help from any of our @/RPLeaders. Who are all very kind and respectful. They regard your situation with care, talk you through it and pass it on to mod or head if need be.
As for me, if you would rather, you can PM me. I don’t mind being PM’d, I’m here to help. It will be treated confidentially, only kept within the PM, and we can look into the situation. I want to try to make sure you feel comfortable in our community again.

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okay so do I be honest or do I become the worlds best liar when someone changes their FC but I liked the older one better

lie lie lie lie lie

nonono jk, it’s not that big of a deal so I’d say that telling them is totally fine, as long as you aren’t like belittling their decision ya dig

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yeh what Chid said

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Hey, I need help with portraying a Japanese accent. Preferably an article so I don’t have to watch a video over again if I need to revisit it. Much appreciated!

I would think it’d be easier to see a video so that you could then portray it in your writing but okie broski you do you

Here’s a video anyways tho lmao

And uhhh honestly, judging by this very brief search that I did, there are way more videos about it than there are articles so like… there’s this one, but it’s not for Japanese accented English specifically, it’s about portraying characters with accents in general.

http://katlatham.com/2011/10/ten-tips-on-writing-characters-with-accents-by-rose-lerner/

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Thank you!

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Np~

I’m trying to make a musical character, and want their name to reflect that. I’m trying to find good Korean names, but I can’t find any that have anything to do with music. I also can’t find any fcs of girls or NBs with headphones or guitars that I like.

wskdjfhevgyhcwkejxlas I’m sorry for posting this late I have beeen busy :sneezing_face:

Idk if you still need help with those though erm… but anyways, maybe try looking for words that describe music instead if there are deadset on finding a name relating to music. I think I remember that Song is a common name or surname in Korea, but I am not sure at all take that with the tiniest grain of salt, and obviously it’d likely be pronounced different but I think that’s kinda cool

I mean, it’s nice for your fc to have a lot of relevance like that, but I wouldn’t say it’s necessary. Like, you could still do a pretty relevant fc without having music aspects like that in it yknow

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What is a good way to have a closed off character interact with people?

Bullying :relieved::sparkles:
I don’t know tho I do be uncreative and tired- uhhhh literally just push the envelope of what sort of interactions are within their personality yknow like
maybe it was a dare to talk to that person? maybe they feel like harrassing someone? maybe they’re in a mood for a fight and that person was just an unlucky soul? lmao idek

Although closed-off doesn’t necessarily mean unfriendly, just not an open book

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I got it.

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~bUmP iNtO tHeM~

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Sorry if this is a late reply but I’ve done a tonnn of research for naming South Korean characters so I might be able to help a bit here. Please note that I am not South Korean and my knowledge/advice may not be as reliable as someone who is.

We typically see Korean names written in hangul but its hanja (Characters borrowed from Chinese and incorporated into the Korean language with Korean pronunciation) form is what determines the meaning. Some hanja are very common whilst some tend to be rare. I think there is a list of hanja allowed to be used in names made by the government but I read this a looong time ago and my memory is hazy.

I think the most commonly used hanja for Song (ę¾) means pine but I am unsure about others. The only one I could fine relating to music is ģ—¬ (Yeo) 呂 meaning a musical note. Here’s the masterlist of surnames.

For first names here’s a list of hanja used in female names. I wouldn’t recommend just randomly matching some as they might not make sense in Korean but here’s a list of names someone compiled. It could take some effort/time but imo it’s better than using a name that makes no sense in Korean. Like if a non-English speaker wrote an English speaking character named Dog.

Also please remember Korean names are also written in the format Surname + Given Name and I do not think middle names are given or common.

Update: I just found this link, whoops!


As a closed-off person who writes closed-off characters, I would say get creative to force your character out of their comfort zone. If they wouldn’t typically approach people perhaps use one of their weaknesses against them.

Examples:

  • Character A picked up something incredibly important to your character and now they need to get it back.
  • Your character needs a certain character’s help/presence to get something done.
  • Your character is trying to get away from something or someone and they run to the closest character for help/assistance. They end up owing this character a favour as a result (giving you a prompt for future interactions.)
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I’m really shy when it comes to requesting the other people to approach my character instead and I also don’t like bumping anymore UNLESS THERE’S A TWIST somewhere so I try to make the interaction begin with some kind of need like ā€œhey that’s my shoe you’re wearingā€ or ā€œyou’re blocking my way, excuse meā€

just something out of necessity!

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don’t you just hate it when rp characters steal your shoes? :disappointed:
my bio

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I’m too shy to DM this and you can probably guess who I am but I want to say that I really enjoy Brooke’s RP/SG posts and threads. Even though I’m not very active, the posts are definitely luring me back into RPing and have developed my understanding and appreciation for RP. It really gets me thinking about my own characters and writing but also makes me feel more involved/guided. I think if we had this on the EF or when I used to RP more I wouldn’t have disconnected from RP the way I did. So thank you Brooke :heart:

@Littlefeets ~

AWWW YES PRECIATION FOR BROOKE STAN SHES THE LOVELIEST

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:blush: Awww you’re welcome, I’m really glad my posts and threads are helping lure you back! I try my best with them, so I’m really glad hearing that they’ve been helpful.

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Stan brooke

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