Luckily nobody has apologized to me in this way , but I really dislike it when people try to use the words “I’m sorry you were offended” as an apology
By saying this you are just pretending to care, while avoiding any responsibility for the hurt that you caused. Because you are not trying to apologize to the other person by saying these words. You are just trying to blame them for the way they reacted to your actions instead of owning up to them. Honestly it just comes across as really passive-aggressive.
You are not “letting someone win” by avoiding a party or whatever pointless event you don’t want to attend. You have the right to protect your mental health and have peace to yourself.
When someone bullies you, that does not mean that they have a crush on you. It’s annoying when people think like that as this is suggesting that they think that abuse is cute when it’s isn’t at all!
Oh man, girls at my secondary school shamed me for that. I was like, “None of your business, tr0ll0ps!” Seriously, I don’t understand why they had to make a huge deal about that. We can wear whatever underwear we feel comfortable wearing.
Bloody hell, I swear girls really do have a habit of making such a big deal over what kind of underwear we would rather wear at a young age. If I was 12 again, I’d rather wear a bra & panties with cupcakes on it than sexy lacy stuff.
A little controversial but I’ll say it.
Remember when I made a fuss about women in their 20s, dating guys in their 40s? Well I don’t see the big deal because they’re both consenting adults. A 50 year old man dating a 12 year old is more concerning than a woman dating a man in his 40s.
that is the stupidest thing ever to say and I heard it for most of my school time. it might happen sometimes but it is really rare that is the reason a person is been bullied and even if a he a crush was the case who would wanna date the one who bullied them
Pretty sure you are all going to agree with me on this one. Being a single 40 year old woman doesn’t make you a loser.
And nope, I’m not a 40 year old woman, I’m just saying that there is nothing wrong with being single. If you’re happy about being single for a long time then good on you!
Who cares if someone has been single for 6-10 years, that’s no one’s business. It really bugs me that idiots from the right movement have been looking down on women that are in their 30s for remaining single or not married. Jeez, get off their damn backs and worry about your own life!
Marriage isn’t everything. A lot of marriages don’t last for a very long time to be fair as I have came across arranged marriages that didn’t last for a very long time that they break up one month later…no bullsh*t!
Thank you! Some of my relatives that live overseas really need to hear this.
Every single time I go to visit them, it’s always the same question… Why aren’t you married yet?
It’s the only topic they ever want to discuss with me, except that one aunt that’s always pressuring me to move there even after I’ve told her ten thousand times that I don’t want to live there.
Of course mothers need to realise that marriage isn’t everything. My aunt that got out of a toxic marriage back in summer 2019 told me to never get married and I don’t blame her for that because her ex-husband is a monster!
Oh man, I know how you feel. I hate how people act like marriage is an obligation. We all have the right to not get married, it’s no one’s business if you don’t want to get married. Plus, marriage is too expensive.
