If somebody tells me they don’t wanna talk about something I drop it unless it’s vital that I know.
I don’t like saying things about other people to random people who just want gossip. Unless they are involved in the situation they don’t need to know. I’ve lost so many friends because of people sticking their noses into my situations without hearing my side.
Same here.
Honestly, they should mind their freaking business if someone doesn’t want to talk about something that would upset them even more.
Like I lost a friend all because I refused to give him an explanation on why I deleted all of my social media and have no intention of returning.
It’s most of the reason I don’t get involved in conversations anymore, if a friend doesn’t want to talk about something and I see my other friends being the Spanish Inquisition to them, I pretty much make it my job to distract my friend and give them a way out of saying stuff and thinking of stuff.
I just hate when people think they’re entitled to information. Unless it’s life or death you don’t need to know.
A girl I know seems to think she’s the boss of us all and the Mum of the group like she can solve all our problems but I don’t feel comfortable sharing things with her at all because she can get quite aggressive and unpleasent about it.
Exactly. This is why I don’t bother venting so much now days because people would either defend the idiot who annoyed me or victim blame me. Even worse…find something to gossip about.
I totally get where you two are coming from about the body shaming that adult women do but you also have to understand that they come from a different era of how women should act. Not condoning for how they act though. It all depends at what time period you were born at and that old habits are hard to kick.
I do understand that but that doesn’t make it right. Hurts when I hear my Mum saying that kind of stuff.
I’ve also had so many bad experiences with rude older people I kinda stay as far away as I can
Btw by older people I don’t mean like pensioners I mean 45+
Yes, I understand but why does my grandma have to say i’m not eating and I should gain more weight everytime I visit her? This is how the complex with my body started and at a very young age. I looked at myself in the mirror and i was ashamed of how skinny i was.
I know but you have to remember how you feel is all that matters. Ignore the cruel words and just keep eating the way you do. It’s your body not theirs. It’s not right at all for anyone to comment on someon’s body size. Unless if that person is severely underweight but you litterally have to have a eating disorder for that. You eat the way you do. As long as your healthy and are fine then it shouldn’t matter what they say. It’s painful to hear but you shouldn’t let it effect the way you live.
I completely understand. I use to be very small when I was in high school and middle school. I would get comments like this all the time. I just would not let it faze me because it’s my body and not theirs. I eat how I eat and that doesn’t change. It’s the one way I got past all the body shaming and now I’m at the average body weight for my size.
Not you.
Deep breath
It’s ASK, not AKS!!!
Want some crips
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why
You just described 99% of my primary school 
Yeah those are such pacific points
get it cause people don’t say “specific”
Nucular instead of Nuclear -.-
Women who want to go on a diet but they have a freakin’ HOURGLASS shape!!!