Hey there, I’m Pandamonium!
~ Differences in religious beliefs?
For some, these may be considered
deal breakers. A deal breaker is an issue or problem that cannot be resolved, and eventually leads to someone withdrawing from a relationship.
I’d love to hear about what your deal breakers are in regards to romantic relationships and friendships. No deal breaker is too little or too big to speak on! The first two to pop into my mind are:
• Friendships: Being seen as a “back-up friend” is an absolute deal breaker for me. I am not here to entertain you only because your “main” friends are busy.
• Romantic relationships: Being cheated on. If I can’t trust you, I can’t be with you. Simple as that.
Well, I’m an atheist, so someone who’s too religious or trying to convert me
I’m also pansexual, so no homophobia
Totally understandable. I believe everyone’s religious beliefs (or lack thereof) is completely up to them to discover. No one has the right to push
any kind of opinions or beliefs onto someone else.
Any kind of bigotry and I’d have to bounce.
Of course. Thank you for sharing!
Racism and homophobia are automatic deal breakers, no matter what kind of relationship it is.
I can be friends with someone who smokes, but I would not have a romantic relationship with someone who smokes, would not like to live with someone who smokes, and would not be friends with someone who smoked around me even when I wasn’t okay with it.
I would not have a romantic relationship with someone who smokes, would not like to live with someone who smokes, and would not be friends with someone who smoked around me even when I wasn’t okay with it.
@passionfruit, I agree 100%. I’ve lived around people who smoke cigarettes my entire life, and I absolutely loathe the smell. You’ve stated that you wouldn’t have a romantic relationship with a smoker, but what if your preexisting partner began smoking cigarettes? Would that be a big enough factor to cancel the relationship?
Liars, cheaters, racists/homophobes , violence.
Those are my only deal breakers
I don’t mind alcohol (even encouraged) , smoking, tbh I don’t mind even hardcore drugs as long as you’re a good person.
if they wouldn’t stop, definitely
I like to believe there are things that could be deal breakers for me but I tolerate everything and never speak up when something is really bothering me or I don’t agree with it. Not good but oh well.
Of course, I would never keep dating someone that cheated on me or is abusive.
In romantic relationships pretty much just standard stuff like don’t cheat or anything bad like that.
Alot of it goes hand in hand with frienship dealbreakers for me anyway.
Racism/sexism/homophobia or general a**holery
Ultimatums (it’s like a peak level of manipulation that I will never rise to)
Manipulation or any kind of controlling behaviours
Betraying my trust
Now I don’t care about people who talk about me behind my back like whatever we all need to vent sometimes…just don’t get caught.
Romantic relationships and friendships:
telling me what to wear
telling me who to talk to
basically anything along the lines of controlling behaviors
lack of respect for my own space
very anti-feminist (like the belief of gender roles pressed upon other people)
a trump supporter
Someone that takes you for granted and plays with your feelings