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#152 T h i s i s r e a l l y s t u p i d o f m e , I k n o w , b u t . . . y e a h . I f e e l n e r v o u s a n d t h e n e e d t o n o t t y p e / s a y a n y t h i n g i n a d e b a t e w h e r e e i t h e r C h a o t i c D e l u g e o r S h a n n i i h a v e s a i d s o m e t h i n g i n . I f e e l l i k e I w o n β t b e s m a r t e n o u g h t o m e e t u p t o t h e i r k n o w l e d g e a b l e s t a n d a r d s , a n d t h a t m y i n p u t w o n β t h e l p a n y t h i n g . H o n e s t l y , i f a n y o n e I p r a i s e o r v i e w a s r e s p e c t a b l e c o m m e n t s t h e i r o p i n i o n o n s o m e t h i n g , I β d k e e p t o t h e q u i e t s i d e o f t h i n g s .
Sometimes I feel that way.
Itβs ok!
Same!! We are SO alike!!!
I want them as my friend.
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Nopeee
Ooffffβ¦
Lol!
Yeah⦠kinda like stealing.
I would like you.
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One confession is for the restricted section, but as the person informed me, theyβΕe not old enough for it, so I will post my answer here.
Firstly Iβm sorry it happened to you.
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#161 I a l r e a d y s a i d h o w I f e e l a b o u t t r a s h t a l k i n g p e o p l e / a u t h o r s a n d t h e i r s t o r i e s b e h i n d t h e i r b a c k s ( n o , n o t β c o n s t r u c t i v e c r i t i c i s m β o r e v e n c r i t i c i s m - b u t l i t e r a l s h i t t a l k ) a n d I t h i n k i t β s c r a z y h o w s o m a n y p e o p l e h e r e h a v e n o p r o b l e m s h a m i n g a n d c r a p p i n g o n o t h e r s f o r l i t e r a l l y n o r e a s o n . T a k e a s t e p b a c k a n d r e a d w h a t y o u s a i d a n d i m a g i n e h o w y o u β d f e e l i f s o m e o n e s a i d i t a b o u t y o u o r y o u r s t o r i e s , c a l l i n g s o m e o n e s t u p i d f o r a p l o t p o i n t o r a m o r o n f o r i n c o r p o r a t i n g i d e a s t h a t y o u d i s a g r e e w i t h i s r i d i c u l o u s . A l s o , n o t t o b e s h a d y b u t I β v e r e a d a l o t o f t h e s t o r i e s t h a t a r e t a l k e d d o w n u p o n a s w e l l a s t h e s t o r i e s o f t h e p e o p l e w h o a r e d o i n g t h e t r a s h t a l k i n g . . . t h e p o t c a l l i n g t h e k e t t l e b l a c k d o e s n β t e v e n d o t h e s i t u a t i o n j u s t i c e . I t β s f i n e t o v o i c e y o u r o p i n i o n b u t b e i n g c o m p l e t e l y d e r o g a t o r y a n d u n n e c e s s a r i l y r u d e j u s t s h o w s y o u r t r u e c h a r a c t e r a n d I β m s e r i o u s l y s u r p r i s e d a t h o w h o r r i b l e s o m e o f t h e p e o p l e h e r e a r e , h o n e s t l y , n o w I β m w o n d e r i n g w h a t β s b e e n s a i d a b o u t m e b e h i n d m y b a c k .
Could you send me a link or smthg where someone here is calling some author a moron etc?
That doesnβt happen hereβ¦
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#162 I f e e l l i k e y o u β l l a l l k n o w w h o t h i s i s b e c a u s e I β m r e i t o r a t i n g p o i n t s I β v e s a i d b e f o r e b u t I w a n n a m a k e i t c l e a r o n e l a s t t i m e . - y o u a r e n o t a p o s e r f o r l i k i n g a b a n d I f a p e r s o n s a y s " t h i s i s n β t t r u e ( i n s e r t g e n r e ) " i g n o r e t h e m I h a v e n o i d e a w h y t h e y f e e l t h e n e e d t o d u m p o n s o m e t h i n g t h e y d o n β t l i k e . I k n o w p e o p l e h a v e b e e n a c c u s e d o f p r e t e n d i n g t o b e e m o b e c a u s e " t H e B a N d s T h E y l i S t E n t o A r E m a I N s t R e a M " I n e v e r w o k e u p o n e m o r n i n g a n d c a l l e d m y s e l f e m o , o t h e r p e o p l e c a l l e d m e t h a t w h e n I t o l d t h e m m y i n t e r e s t s . J u s t l i k e I g e t c a l l e d a w e e b o r a n e r d a l o t . I d o n β t c a l l m y s e l f t h e s e t h i n g s , I g e t c a l l e d t h e m .
Emo wasnβt mainstream for like 15 years already. Nuh?
Whyyyyy do people do this. Itβs just music they like, deal with it cdudududi
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#163 I d o n β t l i k e h o w p e o p l e a r e u s i n g t o t h r e a d t o " s h a d e " a n d " d r a g " p e o p l e w h e n t h e y c a n j u s t P M a b o u t i t . Y o u c o m p l a i n a b o u t o t h e r s t a l k i n g s h * t b u t a r e d o i n g t h e s a m e t h i n g .
Where??? Not happening on this thread.
Um
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#164 I d o n β t r e a l l y k n o w h o w t o s e n d l i n k s h e r e b u t I β v e s e e n t h i s k i n d o f b e h a v i o r o n m u l t i p l e t h r e a d s , t h e m o s t r e c e n t b e i n g t h e β U n p o p u l a r E p i s o d e O p i n i o n s β t h r e a d - a l t h o u g h s o m e p e o p l e h a v e e d i t e d t h e i r c o m m e n t s t o b e s l i g h t l y n i c e r , t h e r e β s s t i l l q u i t e a f e w c o m m e n t s t h a t a r e t o t a l l y u n c a l l e d f o r . I β m n o t s a y i n g t h a t p e o p l e c a n β t c r i t i c i z e , b u t a t l e a s t b e c o n s t r u c t i v e a b o u t i t - a n d t o b e h o n e s t t h e r e β s n o r e a s o n t o b e c a l l i n g s p e c i f i c p e o p l e o u t j u s t b e c a u s e y o u d o n β t l i k e t h e i r s t o r i e s . M a y b e i f t h e y d i d s o m e t h i n g w r o n g o r i f y o u β r e t r y i n g t o h e l p I β d u n d e r s t a n d i t b u t s a y i n g t h a t a p e r s o n i s o v e r r a t e d a n d t h e i r s t o r i e s a r e t r a s h i s j u s t p l a i n r u d e .
Yeah, I donβt visit this thread, so Iβm not rly informed.
I havenβt seen much of that, but if people do that, that could be a bit rude.
I hate no chapstick but my mother wonβt buy any
Lol!
Huh
Wow, rude. They arenβt good friends then
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#169 Y o u β r e e n t i t l e d t o y o u r o p i n i o n , j u s t l i k e I β m e n t i t l e d t o m i n e . I t h i n k s a y i n g a p e r s o n i s o v e r r a t e d o r t h a t t h e i r s t o r y i s g a r b a g e w i t h o u t g i v i n g a l e g i t i m a t e r e a s o n i s j u s t r u d e a n d c o m e s o f f a s w i n g j e a l o u s . I a l s o f i n d t h e w h o l e β a t t a c k i d e a s n o t p e o p l e β j o k e a n n o y i n g , i t β s n o t r i g h t a n d s h o u l d b e a n a c t u a l r u l e . A l l o f y o u w o u l d b e t h e f i r s t p e r s o n t o j u m p o n t h e d e f e n s i v e i f i t w a s o n e o f y o u o r y o u r f r i e n d s b e i n g a t t a c k e d . C l e a r l y t h e p e o p l e o n t h i s f o r u m s a r e n β t a s n i c e a s I t h o u g h t t h e y w e r e .
I think that if you think it takes place, you should voice it whenever you see it. People make mistakes, and they tend to get carried away. I do say that, when I think something is kinda personal attack etc. Confessions donβt do much. Uβd be surprised how people may be oblivious to them being kinda mean, unless you point it.
Sometimes itβs that way, sometimes people just donβt know it.
When youβre all grown up
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I never experienced this.
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#173 β T e l l a m o d ! β K i n d a h a r d t o d o t h a t w h e n i t β s a m o d c a u s i n g a l l t h e p r o b l e m s : /
If you mean this forum, then it goes for mods as well. I think that mods here are willing to accept their mistakes if they make ones.
What?
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#174 F u n n y h o w t h e c o m m o n r e p l y i s t h a t t h e s e f o r u m s a r e n β t a b o u t s i l e n c i n g o t h e r s o r t h e i r o p i n i o n s , b u t t h e n a s s o o n a s s o m e o n e s a y s s o m e t h i n g t h a t o t h e r s d i s a g r e e w i t h t h e r e β s a n i s s u e .
Well, the fact that someone disagrees with you doesnβt mean they are silencing you. Grow up dude.
I think thatβs called a βdebateβ.
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#175 S o r r y , I d i d n β t r e a l i z e t h a t t h e a t t a c k i n g i d e a s a n d n o t p e o p l e w a s a n a c t u a l r u l e b e c a u s e t h e o n l y t i m e s t h a t I β v e s e e n i t b r o u g h t u p a r e i n s a r c a s t i c c i r c u m s t a n c e s - p l u s I β v e s e e n s o m a n y i n s t a n c e s w h e r e t h i s r u l e h a s b e e n b r o k e n ( t a l k i n g a b o u t J e r e m y , A r l e n e , M J , C i n d y a n d m a n y o t h e r s i f y o u w a n t e d a f e w e x a m p l e s ) . A n d I c o u l d β v e s w o r n t h a t I s a w a m o d p o s t s o m e w h e r e t h a t i t w a s a j o k e .
If you see rules being broken, flag the message or message the person. Thatβs what grown ups do.
Flag it
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#176 I t f e e l s a s t h o u g h p e o p l e o n l y e v e r a s k m e w h a t o t h e r p e o p l e a r e i n t o , t h e y n e v e r a s k m e w h a t I β m i n t o . I s i t t o o m u c h t o a s k f o r s o m e o n e t o t a k e a n i n t e r e s t i n m e ?
People mostly are more self absorbed. It doesnβt mean thereβs some kind of problem with you personally.
Iβll just ask now- what are YOU interested in?
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#177 I d o n β t k n o w w h y I j o i n e d t h i s f o r u m . I d o n β t k n o w a n y b o d y a n d a l l o f y o u k n o w e a c h o t h e r f r o m a n o t h e r p l a c e I g u e s s . M y e n g l i s h i s n o t v e r y g o o d , I l i k e t o t h i n k i t i s s o I c o u l d p a r t i c i p a t e h e r e , b u t I β m v e r y s h y a n d s t u p i d . I c a n β t t a l k o r s o m e t h i n g o r g i v e m y o p i n i o n b e c a u s e I h a v e n o t h i n g i n t e r e s t i n g t o s a y . T h a n k s f o r y o u r k i n d w e l c o m e t h o , I r e a l l y e n j o y e d r e a d i n g t h e t i p s f o r w r i t i n g a n d c r e a t i n g c h a r a c t e r s .
Maybe then itβs an opportunity for you to grow somehow? Expand fields of interests and develop social skills? Itβs not the same as in real life, but still.
There are plenty of friendly people
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Oh gosh.
Iβm sending hugs their way.
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#178 I f i n d i t f u n n y h o w e v e r y o n e ( n o t j u s t t h e p e o p l e h e r e ) l i k e t o t r a s h e p i s o d e , w h e n i f i t w e r e n β t f o r t h a t a p p t h e y w o u l d n β t h a v e b e e n a b l e t o : s h a r e t h e i r w o r k , m e e t s o m e o f t h e f r i e n d s / r e s o u r c e s t h e y c u r r e n t l y h a v e , g a i n t h o u s a n d s o f f o l l o w e r s / r e a d e r s a n d m u l t i p l e o t h e r t h i n g s t h a t I d o n β t w a n t t o g e t i n t o . I s e p i s o d e p e r f e c t ? L o l , a b s o l u t e l y n o t . B u t y o u β r e l y i n g i f y o u s a y t h a t t h i s a p p h a s n e v e r d o n e a n y t h i n g f o r y o u
I didnβt see anyone saying this is a useless app. It gave me a lot. The whole history with it is why a lot of people are getting upset or angry with some things that happen here. Because itβs important for us.
Itβs a good app. There are a few flaws and we are just pointing up out in a civilized way.
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#179 I f e e l d e a d i n s i d e , m y d u d e s . I β v e g o t t o n s s s s s o f t e s t s a l r e a d y , a n d I f e e l l i k e I β v e l e t d o w n m y p a r e n t s . H o w ? T h e y e x p e c t p e r f e c t g r a d e s , a n d i t β s w h a t I β m g i v i n g t h e m , b u t w h a t i f I c a n β t k e e p u p w i t h t h e i r h i g h s t a n d a r d s ? W h a t i f I f a i l ? I m e a n , y e a h , I g e t b a c k u p a g a i n , b u t , i t β s n o t t h a t s i m p l e w i t h t h i s . I β m w o r k i n g a s h a r d a s I c a n , b u t I b a s i c a l l y f e a r i t w o n β t b e e n o u g h . T h a t _ I _ w o n β t b e e n o u g h . S i g h .
Honestly school is such a small part of our lives. Perfect grades doesnβt guarantee you anything. Even in college. Your maturity matters more, how fast you βgetβ new things and skills, social skills. Think about it. And u r not going to school for ur parents. For urself.
Cookie is rightβ¦
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#180 Is this a toxic friendship?b*tch .
She used to not talk about other people behind their backs, we were close to everyone in the classroom. I donβt think this personity of herβs is because of her itself but because of my other βbestfriendβ who is really, really clingy to my other bestfriend but not me.
It was obvious since the start of Day 1 that she hated me, she didnβt like hanging out with me and would even say indirectly say harsh things and showing that she doesnβt like me. Not only that, but sheβs a big manipulater. She even brainwashed my other bestfriend into saying bad stuff about me when Iβve done nothing wrong.
These days, I feel like theyβre just straight up ignoring me. I tried to tell my bestfriend to not trust what my other bestfriend said, and that worked for a whileβ¦ Things were going back the way it used to be and we were somehow happy again but that didnβt last longβ¦
Now, despite knowing the lies my βclingyβ bestfriend said, she still even now, treats me as of we were just acquintancesβ¦ Iβm thinking of leaving the frienship? But I was really happy with the memories we made and I donβt think I can even leave this friendshipβ¦
Thatβs toxic AF.
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#181 I h a v e b e e n t h r o u g h q u i t e a l o t o f f r i e n d g r o u p s o n l i n e a n d i n r e a l l i f e . Y e t I c a n β t h e l p b u t f e e l l i k e a t h r o w a b l e t h i r d w h e e l i n m o s t o f t h e m . E s p e c i a l l y i n m y c u r r e n t f r i e n d g r o u p . I k n o w t h a t e v e r y o n e h a s s o m e o n e t h e y w i l l l i k e m o r e i n t h e i r f r i e n d g r o u p s t h a n o t h e r s , b u t I a l w a y s s e e m t o b e f l o a t i n g s o m e w h e r e i n t h e m i d d l e . W h i c h i s f i n e i n m o s t c a s e s , b u t I h a v e r e c e n t l y n o t i c e d t h a t m y f r i e n d g r o u p i s f a l l i n g a p a r t . A n d I β m a f r a i d e v e r y o n e w o u l d j u s t s p l i t i n t w o o t h e r g r o u p s a n d I w o u l d n β t b e p a r t f r o m e i t h e r o f t h e m . I n s t e a d I j u s t f i n d a n e w f r i e n d g r o u p a n d w a i t u n t i l t h e c y c l e r e p e a t s i t s e l f . . . u g h w h y c a n β t I k e e p u p l o n g t e r m f r i e n d s h i p s ? ? ?
Me neither, I used to have a best friend for like 3-4 years but then she left
LMAO.
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#183 I c a n β t s t a r t a n a r g u m e n t w i t h p e o p l e , I j u s t s h o u t a t t h e m i n m y h e a d w h e n e v e r I β m a n g r y a t t h e m . H o w d o p e o p l e s t a r t a n a r g u m e n t ?
Better start discussion, not argument. Unless you just want to argue for the sake of arguining. Nothing wrong with that btw.
Itβs called DEBATE, and you say your opinion, except nicer
Its harder than you thinkβ¦
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#188 Everyone always says choose a career that you love , chase your dreams ! But what if you just suddenly discover that youβre just mediocre at the thing you love doing the most and would gladly do it every day. I know that trying to study and practice about it more will help me improve , but I just feel like that wonβt be enough?. After all Not every little girl gets to do what they want. The world cannot support that many dreams.
This is one of the things Iβm terrified of tbh.
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Nah, itβs fine
Haha
I agree. Itβs kinda hard to admit it and actually admitting it is mature
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#190 I g e t v e r y i r r i t a t e d w h e n b i - r a c i a l p e o p l e w h o a r e w h i t e - p a s s i n g . S o m e t i m e s p r e t e n d l i k e t h e y a r e F U L L Y a P O C . T o b e m o r e i n t e r e s t i n g b e c a u s e t h e y j u s t h a p p e n t o l i k e t h a t c u l t u r e . I p e r s o n a l l y h a v e n o p r o b l e m w i t h b i r a c i a l p e o p l e l o v i n g t h e i r n o n - c a u c a s i a n s i d e , i n f a c t , I t h i n k i t β s g r e a t t h a t y o u a c c e p t t h a t . B u t I d o t h i n k t h a t y o u s h o u l d a l s o b e a b l e t o s e e t h a t y o u a r e n β t f u l l y a P O C a n d t h e o u t s i d e w o r l d w i l l n o t v i e w t h a t w a y . U n l e s s y o u t e l l t h e m t h a t y o u a r e n o t w h i t e . W h i c h p r o b a b l y h a s i t β s o w n s t r u g g l e s , i f y o u d o n β t l i k e t h a t . B u t p r e t e n d i n g t o b e F U L L Y P O C w h e n y o u r e v e n l e s s t h a n h a l f , j u s t s e e m s k i n d o f i n s u l t i n g t o m e . I t β s l i k e b e i n g a P O C a n d c l a i m i n g a l l t h e p o s i t i v e s i d e s o f i t w h i l e n e v e r h a v i n g t o e x p e r i e n c e t h e n e g a t i v e . A s t h e y w i l l n e v e r h a v e t o d e a l w i t h t h e a w f u l s t e r e o t y p e s , e x c l u s i o n , b l a t a n t r a c i s m b y o t h e r s . J u s t b y t h e w a y y o u l o o k . M a y b e I β m j u s t j e a l o u s I β m n o t s u r e , b u t I t h i n k i t β s j u s t u n f a i r .
Kinda dumb. But itβs just my pov.
Um
We are a competitor forum apparently xD
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There is two #171 . Thatβs not supposed to be that way.
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Work hard to achieve your dreams.
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ITS NOT SRSLY.