That’s right, even if it’s in the past, they still did it, they made your life a living hell and all u gotta do is forgive them? Big no…
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Tbh I don’t even think I need to consider forgiving my bullies, none of them are in my life atm and the thought of bumping into them in the street makes my stomach hurt. I just hope I never see them again.
Personally I hope I’ve never had that affect on anyone, I’ve never been a bully as I’ve said before for this reason I don’t want people to dread seeing me the way I dread seeing others.
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Exactly.
For example if I went to your school and bullied you every damn day, I don’t deserve your forgiveness for that.
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Yep, it’s on purpose after all…
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Exactly, hurtful comments never have good intentions
What positive thought could you ever give someone by insulting them and making fun of them on a daily basis?
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Don’t forget that name calling can have a huge impact on someone. Even if it’s a joke, I won’t approve of that either.
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If I had said something meant as a joke and it upset someone I would immediately apologise and never say it again.
I don’t know why people think they can continuously upset another person.
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Good point, why would the bully expect from the person who bullied to forgive them? They can’t erase what they did.
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A woman who had bullied my Mum when they were in school came up to her and said “oh I bullied you in school I’m sorry about that” too late 
plus it clearly wasn’t genuine she probably just wanted to clear her conscience otherwise she wouldn’t have waited until the small chance of bumping into her in the toilet of a night club.
I’ve only ever forgiven one of my bullies because he was really sorry and he even defended me to other people. He grew up and realised what he did was wrong.
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Same here.
Bullies are bored with their own freaking lives that they have nothing to do but make others miserable.
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People who just say “oh yea i’m sorry” This. Is. Just. A fake apology. But i don’t know about a person who is really sorry and defends you since i haven’t experienced that.
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We’ve all had that moment where we’ve been “a bit of an a**” but what matters is we realise we are in the wrong and apologise and try to make up for it.
Bullies just continously and relentlessly hurt other people, they don’t look for forgiveness.
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Definitely a red flag when they say that. If you’re really sorry, an apology would be sincere and in details.
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I agree. We all have these moments, even I’m most of a c**t all the time and I don’t regret it because of how people treated me.
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Exactly! They are just not happy with themselves and look for someone to bully to make themselves feel better but we all know that is just not a way to do that, it’s wrong on so many levels.
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Lol same but there’s a difference between being mean because somebody else has been mean to you and just being mean for no reason.
What annoys me is when people refuse to see how bad they acted and just try and make me out to be a villain.
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My point exactly.
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This.
They try to blame-victim you and make you seem like the bad guy.
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Then again, I’m a very sensitive person so if you joke about certain topics when we will have a huge problem e.g. FGM, marriage, kids, religion
Even annoying af when people try putting words into your mouth when you never said anything. For example, when I say that I’m not a fan of Mexican food I instantly get called racist for that; some game of twist twist woo.
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Manipulative c**ts they are!
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