If you want add me and we can talk!
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Talk to me I’m nice
Gosh somebody thinks highly of themselves
Jk I know you’re nice
Awh you can just talk to me whenever you want I like making new friends! You can also just join one of the many cults on the forums, they are often very welcoming as well.
Jk you’re awesome
This… I relate to this
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Lol you are not being mean at all. If that was considered as so then there would be no humor in the world. Just as long as, your not laughing at them face to face during a conversation a sensitive topic then it’s not consider being mean.
I get where you are coming from. I have been in similar situations with some friends. People jump on the racist wagon way to often when something is taken out of context. They are technically being racist to you with the treatment you are receiving from them. Though I do not know the full story as to why they are doing this. I’m not telling you to say that to them either. This is a sensitive topic which is why I’m not going into specifics but as long as, your friends still hang out with you then I would ignore what their family says. Some people are just to stubborn because they expect the get the hate from people then they actually end up being the ones spouting the hate instead. This is just what I have noticed with personal experiences.
He could be doing it to get attention with his friends. I’m not sure why he would call you a sparrow. That is a weird thing to say about someone. If you truly want to get to bottom of the matter then I would just straight up confront the guy. Don’t let this go any farther then it already has. This could get a whole lot worse if you don’t put your foot down now.
@WolfGamerGirl37 there ya go
Don’t take this the wrong way please but how do you know you can’t relate with your family if you don’t even try to make the effort to do so? You just need to take the initiative to fix your relationship with your family before the gap gets even wider. You will just have to go about it very slowly but even the small things are what matter in the end. You have to just put your foot out there to make the effort to find something you will all enjoy talking about. Bottling your emotions up while not being yourself around your family will cause more damage in the long run. Relationships are a compromise between two people if you do not put effort into the relationship then it will evaporate one day. You have to make the effort just as much as your family does as well. It’s normal to go through times like this but not talking to them will make it harder to mend the gap. You need to be yourself and not the facade that your family thinks you are. Hiding behind a mask is unhealthy for you and your family.
Thank you!
Your friends’ parents are dumb af.
I don’t see anything controversial in what you said! You’re allowed to feel bad about yourself without people getting offended, and it would be stupid to get offended!
But you shouldn’t hate yourself just because of your race and your hair colour. Love yourself!
#849
I have a relative who is making quarantine ten times worse than it would be if not for her attitude. A few months ago, she just stopped talking to me out of the blue without even telling me what I did wrong. I asked and she just makes up lame excuses about being stressed or busy, but her attitude is very different than it used to be. I see how she acts around other people, all friendly and sweet, and with me she’s extremely cold and unfriendly.
Her kids used to love me so much, but now they always look away whenever they see me. The other day, they got out of the pool because I went in, and when I try to talk to them, they just stare at me with sad eyes, only nodding 'yes’ or 'no’ in a sad way whenever I ask them general questions such as 'How is online school going?’ or 'Do you miss your friends?’
When all this started, I decided not to bother her or let myself be seen by her for a month, in order to give her time to cool down. Two weeks ago, she started being friendly again, so I thought she was over it.
But on Wednesday, I happened to be at the pool when the kids were outside, and when she saw me, she started being cold again. She gave me icy stares. And on Thursday, I heard her screaming at the kids 'Don’t talk to them!’ (The object pronoun in my native language is the same for 'him’ and 'her’). She spanked them and made them cry. But they didn’t talk; I was the one who tried talking. But she never told me I wasn’t allowed to! How was I supposed to know? She never told me she didn’t want me in her life anymore, she never told me why she can’t stand the sight of me.
My mom finally decided that we need to speak to her this week. If she doesn’t want to listen, I’m writing her a letter. This has been going on for too long and it’s ridiculous. What I want is to find out why she hates me, to talk it out, and try to solve our problems in a mature way.
#850
My dad cheated on my mom and I honestly don’t know if I’ll ever look or forgive him I mean he did it a while ago but he also did it twice and she knows and now it may be over but she has such a big heart but I honestly don’t anymore.
#851
I dislike Shannii and how she handles situations. She puts in a lot of effort, I know. But she is unfair. Guess that’s life.
welp. ananoymous confessions wont help here. Maybe voice your concerns more specifically?
@ShanniiWrites
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#852
I have wanted to ask this for a long time and I am only curious but I’ve heard that shannii is on outs with a few mods who are not mods anymore like Saasha and Shadow because they left OR they left because of some tension between the staff team??? Can anyone confirm/deny this?
gossip time