The LGBTQ thread

You should!

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I will do my best!

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How has life been since you came out?

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Is that a question for everyone?

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Yup.

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Worse and better. My family still thinks asexuality doesn’t exits, my friends are more supportive, and my sister’s boyfriend’s been treating me like a child ever since he found out. :thinking::white_heart:

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Treating you like a child?

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Yep. In the most irritating ways. :expressionless::white_heart:

Whenever we want to watch a movie, he says “oh check the rating, it’s might not be appropriate for tea!” Then, anytime there’s a sex scene or even when they kiss, he covers my eyes with his stinky hands. :white_heart:

My parents say he’s so caring and protective…but wtf. :expressionless::white_heart:

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I’ve given up on watching movies with my sister, simply because of him. :expressionless::white_heart:

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A-hole.

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Bump! :white_heart:

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I’m so done with people not accepting that I’m pan, like most of my family and friends know and they say they support me, but just in subtle ways I know they don’t fully understand me and are still like expecting me to end up with a guy which is annoying…

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I hate being unable to come out to my family. I’m already an outcast and my coming out would make things worse. A bisexual Muslim? Whoever heard of that?

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I feel ya. Im already an outcast for being autistic and being a sensitive.

Life just f*cking sucks

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Same here…

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I heard my brother talking about how a group of Muslim boys assaulted a gay kid… then he said it was ‘just a joke’. When I said that was mean, my mother said, “Defending the gays?”
:weary: why? I will never be accepted. Ever…

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Ok, so I feel like I have a lot to say but also going to forget about half of the things I have to say :joy:

So I think I’m bi? I just call myself bi but I’m still not totally sure.

The story?

I used to just think I just liked guys although I didn’t think about my sexuality really when I was young. Then in fifth grade I played truth or dare at a sleepover and a girl was dared to kiss one of us and I covered my face with my knees so that she wouldn’t kiss me and she ended up kissing another girl but after that she said that she was going to kiss me if I weren’t covering my face. Then I kind of started thinking about like, what if she did kiss me, and I kind of developed a little crush on her. The crush didn’t last long and then I didn’t have another crush on a girl for a while so I thought that was a one time thing and just believed I was straight. Then in the beginning of eighth grade I made a new friend and she told me that she was bisexual and I started liking her, but the crush went away quickly too so I wasn’t sure about my sexuality. Then at the end of eighth grade, I got into an online relationship with a girl from the old episode forums, so then I thought I was bisexual. The relationship only lasted a few weeks and I lost interest. That same year I got into two more online relationships except they were with guys. Then after those two relationships (the same year) I started liking a guy in my school and liked him for nine months. We actually talked, hung out, went to a dance together, and told each other we liked each other. So I hadn’t liked any girls in that time and then I was kind of confused about my sexuality and believed that I was heteroromantic but homosexual. (since the relationship with the girl had been mostly sexual (so I believed that I didn’t really like girls romantically but I was confused) but with the guys, it hadn’t been) Then the next school year, there was this new girl who I became friends with and I had a crush on for a couple weeks, but eventually it faded away. Besides that, in the past I’ve had some crushes on some people on the forums, I’m pretty sure they’ve all been girls? But yeah, I’m still kind of unsure of my sexuality. I haven’t even had my first kiss or an actual relationship in real life yet though, so maybe it’ll be less confusing once that happens, who knows. I also could possibly be pansexual but I have no idea, so as of now I just call myself bisexual.

I think I’m pretty open about being bi online, but in real life, not really. I told my best friend that I was bi years ago when I started dating the girl online and I also told her that I started dating a girl online. I kind of forget what my best friend’s reaction was to it, but it wasn’t a bad reaction. I think it was kind of a neutral reaction, like I think she accepted me. Around that time (or that day) I also told my mom that I liked girls too (although I didn’t tell her I was dating one online) but she kind of told me that it was just a phase. Since then, I’ve never mentioned being bi or liking a girl or anything about that to my best friend because I feel like she’s forgotten and I’m too scared to come out again even though she didn’t have a bad reaction the first time. As for my mom, I brought it up a few months ago, saying something about how I still also liked girls. She didn’t say anything about it being a phase but she kind of made a sort of disgusted noise and then I said something, maybe about how I wasn’t totally sure still, and we just never talked about it. But besides that, I’ve never told anyone else in real life that I’m bisexual. I’m going to college this fall though and I want to try and be open about my sexuality although it may be hard. I feel like it’s better to be open about it from the start then not and then have to awkwardly bring it up or feel too scared to mention it. Also, I want others to know my sexuality because if they think I’m straight and don’t know I’m bi, then I’ll probably never get a girlfriend. (I mean, people think I’m straight and I’ve never gotten a boyfriend irl so I probably won’t get a girlfriend irl but at least the chances would be higher than if people thought I was straight)

Also, lol, I’m listening to music and as I was writing this, songs such as You Can’t Pray the Gay Away and A Gay Disney Prince came on. But speaking of music, there’s song I like called Gettin’ Bi that you should listen to if you’re bi or even if you aren’t, I like the song itself as well as the lyrics.

The song (It’s on Spotify too but I just linked the video on YouTube)

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5e7844P77Is

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I’ve been there

I love making casually gay statements to people who don’t know I’m bi

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Lmao

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